About the Founder · Jeni Stennis
I Teach Leaders to See the Invisible Architecture of Power.
Executive strategist, thought leader, performing artist, and author. Creator of The Trust Guide, a framework for strategic influence, power positioning, and trust management for high-capacity people.

My Story
I Learned the Mechanics of Power From the Inside Out.
Long before I coached executives, I lived inside the systems I now help people dismantle. I am a cult survivor, and I spent 25 years in a coercively controlling marriage. Those years taught me how power is quietly taken from capable, brilliant people, not through force, but through subtle structural leverage most never learn to see.
Recovery became research. I combined my lived experience with years of dedicated study in behavioral analysis and abuse recovery, and with my training as a performing artist and writer. The result is The Trust Guide: a framework that reveals the invisible mechanics of truth, trust, and influence.
Today, entirely by word of mouth, I have guided highly successful tech and business executives to recognize coercive dynamics, protect their autonomy, and navigate high-conflict personalities with clarity and strategic calm.
“Manipulation depends on what you cannot see. My work is to make the invisible visible, so your boundaries and power positioning begin working for you automatically.”
— Jeni Stennis
The Through Line
A Rare Convergence of Experience
My expertise is not borrowed from a textbook. It was forged across four distinct worlds.
I.
Performing Artist & Writer
Stage psychology taught me how presence, perception, and subconscious influence shape every room.
II.
Survivor Turned Strategist
Surviving a cult and a 25-year coercive marriage gave me an unmatched, first-hand map of control systems.
III.
Executive Coach
Trusted, by referral alone, by tech and business leaders navigating high-conflict peers, boards, and marriages.
IV.
Researcher of Power
Years of self-directed study in behavioral, linguistic, and abuse-recovery analysis inform every tool I build.
My Approach
Leadership Beyond the Binary.
Traditional leadership training borrows from sports and competitive achievement: self-improvement, execution, and fixed definitions of winning. It leaves high-capacity people exposed to the very dynamics that erode their power.
Trust Intelligence fills that gap, training you to see the structural mechanics that block collaboration, consensus, and self-trust.
Connect With MeHuman Connection Over Competition
Influence built on high trust, intuition, and genuine alignment rather than hierarchy.
Strategic Trust, Granted Deliberately
Learn when to grant or withhold trust, audit relational dynamics, and reclaim your authority.
Immunity to High-Conflict Manipulation
Boundary systems and communication strategy that make you impervious to interference, at work and at home.
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My publication is where I share essays on power, trust, and influence, along with exclusive materials, event invitations, and a thoughtful community of like-minded leaders and survivors. It is the best way to get to know me and my approach before you dive into The Trust Guide.
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Let’s Begin a Conversation.
Whether you are an executive seeking a strategic edge, an event host looking for a speaker, or someone ready to reclaim your autonomy, I would be honored to hear from you.
- Executive advisory & The Trust Guide
- Speaking engagements & media kit requests
- The Trust Guide for Coercive Control
jenistennis@gmail.com